My sons father is usually very good about sending support. I’ve always been thankful for him.
All men with kids make sure that you send your support.
You should send money every month but if you send it 50 months out of 52 months then you’re not a deadbeat.
You’re just someone who messed up your ex’s finances and have to catch up. You probably also upset your kids.
It’s best not to miss any support payments and send extra instead.