Think About it: People who do not want you to be the real deal will look for any excuse to prove that you are not the real deal. They do it to justify their actions when they are not justified.
Think about it: I’ve seen many people push each other sometimes for days, years and even generations to prove they are hostile. Has this ever happened to you?
Think about it: People have a cognitive dissonance and they want to prove their stereo type or hate towards you is justified. Once you get a few people doing that it could really hurt someone.
Think about it: We need for people to stop trying to justify their inaction , and lack of empathy by the very frustrations they have caused.