There are some women who hate men and they will tell women that all men are abusive. This is not true.
Then they will try to set them up with men who will abuse them… Just to prove their point. Ignore those women…they just don’t like men. They hate them.
I’ve had men fix stuff for me, buy me whatever I wanted, get my hair did, cook me chitlins and I didn’t have to have sex with them. They were just sweet like that.
No conditions to their kindness = Real Man.
Talking about self-reliance to women is important but making men the enemy is not the way to go about it. We are still a team.