We have to be ongoing learners. While I know that there are certain things that people will never talk about. There are times when someone says something and you need to ask questions.
After seeing so many celebrities get hacked a few years ago and seeing pictures getting lifted left and right, I knew that people were hard at work to create ruin for them.
These people do have families and children you know. Just like the rest of us. They also have a lot of FAITH.
That’s why when people obtain information that they should not have, I drink a huge glass of ice cold chill. There’s too much room for error to assume anything… More room than the grand canyon.
Do I give a crappola if a Christian man I know dresses up like a girl in private? Nope.
Would I care if someone does obscene things with pictures of Martha Stuart? Sure, to the extent that it bothers them. If they are looking for deeper spiritual meaning in life and say, “I don’t want to do creative things with Martha Stuarts photo anymore.” I would totally support them in that.
I would happily pray for them and whip out the bible.
Or what if someone swears like a beast but you never hear them do that in public. I don’t call them a liar. I say that’s how they choose to live their life.
We have to get to a place of comfort where no matter what people know or don’t know about us that we know it will be OK. As long as we didn’t do “certain things”. We lie in so many ways that it’s impossible to be perfect.
So what if all of your complaint letters, personal insights, and ignant comments gets released to the public. Maybe some saucy photos? Do not get too upset and do not harm yourself or others.
Even if you’ve done sexual favors for a whole bunch of men and everyone thinks you’re a nun. I personally don’t do those things, nor do I want to, but I know this happens, so let’s be mature. Am I getting myself in trouble again? I know someone will take that and swear up and down that I’m talking about me when I am not. Whelp thoughts just ran away with me.
Let’s have a lot less judgement and a lot more love. Plus 9 times out of 10 we’d be much better off helping the people that we are judging.
You can’t hold someone mentally hostage if they are confident.
Be confident.
Lord I empathize and love my fellow man even those who do things that they should not do. Please save those who have been lied to and heal misunderstands. Most importantly restore what you can and bless them. Let those who make haste to judge make haste to restore.